Man Kicks Brother and His Girlfriend Out of Vacation Rental After Constant Fighting Between Them, Favoritism is Revealed When Family Chooses the Brother's Side

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    r/AITAH • 21 hr. ago lakesOfcanada AITA for kicking my brother and his girlfriend out of our vacation rental?
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    I feel like I'm being painted as the villain here, but I (34M) just wanted to keep the peace.
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    I'm currently on vacation with my mom, sister, my brother (28M), and his girlfriend (29F). The thing is, my brother and his girlfriend have an insanely toxic relationship. They fight all the time, and it's not just loud arguing-it can get physical on both sides. In fact, their neighbors have had to call the cops on them more than once because of their fights.
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    A few nights ago, they had another one of their infamous blowouts. It was so bad that everyone in the house was awake, and our mom (who's getting older and doesn't handle stress well) ended up having a panic attack. After that, they promised they'd keep things calm and not fight anymore.
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    Well, fast forward to two nights ago. We were all in a taxi, and they started bickering again. I could tell it was on the verge of turning into another huge fight. I wasn't about to let that happen, especially after a few drinks were involved. So, yeah, maybe I was a little drunk and yelled at them both, but I told them they weren't allowed back at the house. I even
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    sent my brother some money so they could book a hotel for the rest of the trip. After a lot of arguing and complaining, they finally left.
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    Now, everyone's acting like I completely overreacted because they were "just bickering" in the taxi. I get that maybe I could've handled it better and I probably came off a bit harsh. But after what happened before, I wasn't about to risk another physical altercation, especially when we'd all been drinking. Now they're all
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    saying I ruined the trip when in my mind, it was their fight that ruined everything to begin with. So, AITA for kicking them out?
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    Galiubin_666 21h ago NTA. Sounds like you were just trying to protect everyone's safety and avoid another chaotic situation. Plus, who wants to be on vacation with a couple who can't stop fighting? You did the right thing.
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    yougogirlyy •21h ago Sounds like the only fight you ruined was the one between your brother and his girlfriend. Good job keeping the peace and protecting your family.
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    SnoopyisCute 20h ago ΝΤΑ It seems silly that it's even a question. Of course, you did the right thing.
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    It's NOT normal for people to stay together when they don't get along. And, what the is the point of vacation if you can't decompress from life's stressors. Good job! And don't invite them or anybody blaming you next time!
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    BonusMomSays • 21h ago And, as long as they are together, I wouldnt plan another family vacation where everyone shares living space. No way!!
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    Pretty865-Artwork 20h ago ΝΤΑ Refereeing toxic idiots should never be your job. But these supposed adults aren't capable of respecting others so they got what they deserved.
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    Tishers 20h ago NTA They were dragging down the entire vacation for the entire group with their endless drama and BS.
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    If you were on a sailing ship at sea this would of turned out with two people being dropped off on a deserted island and the ship would just friggen leave them there.
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    Make it clear that in the future they are either broken up or they have grown up and are going to be on their absolutely best behavior. Otherwise they are not welcome for vacations, holidays, barn raisings or the annual goat sacrifice.
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    Dukjinim 21h ago NTA. Your brother and GF need to break up
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    InventedStrawbe... 17h ago Couples like this go around saying "we're just extremely passionate" nobody wants to hear you guys screaming at each other. You're ruining everyone's peace with your "passion" NTA
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    Curious_Platform... • 20h ago NTA. Why were they invited to begin with?

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